Dating is pressure and tension. What is a date, really, but a job interview that lasts all night?
Jerry Seinfeld
Earlier this week, I posted one of my red flags for online dating. That simple post got a lot of people asking, “Well, do you have any other dating red flags?”
(Actually, no one asked that, but it sounds better to begin that way)
I’m thinking maybe I need to just forget about dating. I just woke up from a dream where I was the bad blind date.
Wednesday, I received a strange phone message on my cell phone. This is not one of the usual strange calls I used to get back when I first got the cell phone. At that time, I found out that the number they gave me had formerly been the number for a quite popular girl. Furthermore, said quite popular girl seemingly forgot to tell all her friends that she got a new number. Either that or all her friends absent mindedly forgot to update their contacts when she gave them the new number.
No, this one was actually directed toward me.
As I mentioned before, I have withdrawn myself from the dating scene. While I don’t seem to be having that much difficulty accepting it, there are a lot of people who do seem to take issue with my decision. And some of the things they say to try to change my mine seem almost comical.
I would like to take this moment to announce I am officially off the dating market. I have not found anyone, I am just off the market.
I’m looking for ideas where to meet new people. Some of the usual places do not work for me. Bars don’t work because I work nights and Saturdays. That and I don’t drink much more than water.
Where are some good places to meet new people to make new friends?